The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts: Chapman
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Does this sound familiar? Married person X comes home to Spouse X and hands them a gift with a grin. Spouse X looks in disgust at the gift, and says "What is this? How much did it cost? You know we can't afford to waste money!" Sad isn't it? This is a love language problem where one expresses affection through gifts and the other very obviously doesn't.

If that didn't sound familiar, what about these phrases:

Reading this book was quite literally life-changing for me. It's one of those things that divides your life into before and after:

• Before, I didn't know my brother is a "Physical Touch" person and needs to hug me when we first see each other after a long parting. Now that I know this, I can let him do it without feeling uncomfortable or making him feel uncomfortable. It's really improved a situation that used to be very awkward for us.
• My mother-in-law had a problem with a co-worker who would always buy her small trinkets (kind of like how a cat brings dead animals to your doorstep when they like you). She didn't know how to handle it so I told her about the book. I explained what it meant to be a "Gifts" person and some tips for handling it and the awkward situation cleared up.
• Now, when someone is trying to express love or affection (romantic or not), I can more easily recognize it and react/reciprocate appropriately.

The key is that without this knowledge, you may feel you've done everything in the world to make someone feel special and appreciated, but they don't because you're just speaking the wrong language! To learn more, click the book's pic above.

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So now if you get into a disagreement that you can't find your way out of, you and your significant other can go to Sidetaker.com and post your respective sides on the issue. Users of the site can browse through the arguments, vote, and comment on who's side they're taking and why.

Honestly, I think this sounds like a pretty neat idea. Of course, I would get more use out of the site if they'd let us post work-related disagreements instead.